college

Sean (the One I Thought Was the One)

While Kristoffer was my first big crush, Sean was my first big heartbreak. The highest of highs and the lowest of lows. After my first summer home from college, returning to school in the fall felt more like coming home than home did. I was having a rough time rediscovering what “family” was now that it was severed my parents’… Read more →

Adam (the One I Went on a Group Date With)

Christian colleges tend to have very strange cultural rituals. One of these rituals was the ZATS. The zero-attachment time spending. To the real world, this is know as going on a “date,” because any less specific of a description would indicate an expectation of marriage. More specifically, ZATS are usually treated like a “blind date.” Especially when the RA of… Read more →